MINDSET
I’ve got a huge presentation next week to a potential client who could double our revenue. I’m already a wreck. Any advice?
Don’t try to calm down — it won’t work. Harvard Business School’s Alison Wood Brooks has studied this and found that telling yourself to relax is asking your brain to make an almost impossible leap. Nervousness and excitement are both high-energy states; calmness is not. It’s far easier to redirect that energy than to suppress it. Instead of “I’m so nervous about this pitch,” try “I’m so excited about this pitch.” Same feeling, better direction. Walk in wound up. Just make sure it’s pointed the right way.
SALES
A potential client didn’t have their food truck yet, so we estimated the wrap based on measurements they provided. Now that we’ve actually seen the vehicle, the job needs significantly more vinyl. The customer is furious. How do we handle this — and prevent it next time?
The adjustment conversation is painful, but it didn’t have to be a surprise. Ann Durso, owner of Express Signs & Graphics in Chelmsford, MA, ran into the same situation on a food truck wrap — and got through the price adjustment without drama because she’d been upfront from the start about the limitations of estimating without a physical survey. Set that expectation at the very first conversation, put it in writing, and use language like “subject to change upon final measurements.” Customers who understand the process rarely blow up over adjustments. Customers who feel blindsided always do.
MANAGEMENT
We just lost three people we’d spent months training. My partner says we should stop investing so much in employee development. Is he right?
He’s not. The question to ask is: why are they leaving? Conduct exit interviews — keeping in mind that a departing employee is more likely to cite a long commute than admit they can’t stand a difficult manager. Are your wages still competitive? Is there a culture problem? Fix what’s broken. But don’t stop training. The old line holds: train employees well enough that they could get another job, but treat them well enough so they never want to. Poorly trained staff tending to your best customers is a much bigger problem than turnover.
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SERVICE
We have a client who’s been with us for years but is an absolute nightmare — constant revisions, nothing is ever right, my staff dreads every job that comes in from them. Do we have to keep them?
You don’t. The financial calculus is straightforward: add up the hours your team spends on custom requests, redos, and “can you just check that one more time?” calls, and price it against what they actually pay. The math rarely looks good. The harder number to calculate is what it’s costing you in staff morale and creative energy — but if your team dreads seeing their name in the queue, that’s real money too. If they’re never satisfied and you’re always defending your work, it’s time to suggest they’d be better served elsewhere. Do it professionally. Do it soon.
MANAGEMENT
How do I get my staff to stop talking and actually act?
A common trap is confusing chatter with change. Stanford professors Jeffrey Pfeffer and Robert Sutton, who coined the “knowing-doing gap,” warn that too many teams spend energy on strategy sessions and never move. A simple fix is the “No Zero Days” rule: every single day, do one tangible thing — however small — that moves a project forward. The habit kills inertia, proves progress is possible, and gets you out of the meeting room and back into motion.
MOTIVATION
Why does positive thinking sometimes backfire?
Optimism is great for setting goals but lousy for following through. Dr. Gabriele Oettigen, psychology professor at New York University and author of “Rethinking Positive Thinking”, says when people only imagine success, they feel like they’ve already arrived — and lose motivation. Her solution is “mental contrasting”: picture your goal, then picture the obstacles. The friction keeps you realistic and forces you to plan. It’s not about negativity — it’s about turning daydreams into action.
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